Human personality always seems flawed. Aspects of ourselves that are abrasive always exist and rough edges that don't read well of others. Yet why are there people, who annoys the crap out of you or someone else, yet has many other pals of their own? Do their pals not see the flaws in character or do they simply just choose to ignore it?

I've known this one particular person... who i shall not menton (cuz he/she/it will get mad at me).... who has got on the nerves of many people i know(myself once or twice)... and gotten into many disagreements and sometimes comes off very strongly (which sometimes isn't a good thing) however, even when he/she/it is gone now, there are always frens by him/her/it. I myself have found him/her/it to be a good fren and will likely stay one eventhough some others might have just found him/her/it too conflictive.
So does that mean he/she/it(i'm gonna call him/her/it bob) is really an abrasive person or is she just misunderstood.

I don't really know, there are things bob does that makes me wonder how good of a character he has yet doesn't he still have those good qualities? Or does he have both and its just that his freidns choose to ignore the bad ones and his enemies the good ones.
I guess that's how it works huh? I've met what..thousands of people now and i've not gotten along with all of them. Yet it's always wierd to see some of these people with a flurry of friends themselves. Then i always ask myself, do those friends not know the true person that i've had the misfortune to deal with? What is his true self anyway, that icy cold deamnor that he dishes out to me or the warming curved smiles he deals to others. Maybe he's just a bastard to some.

I don't really know, it seems strange. Maybe everyone is just bipolar at times.

Where's a psychologist when you need one?
 

Labels: Philosophical Rantings

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Exclamation_popcorn reflected on life at 9:27 AM