19. Asian Chinese who wonders about fate, destiny and the word while making both cynical and optimistic observations that will probably give a third class philosopher a headache..
Values true friendship, love and the ultimate experience. Loves life, friends, family and popcorn.
Hates life, friends, family and popcorn.
Waiting for life to truly begin
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Monday, November 27, 2006
A whole lot of hoopla
I remember when i first left JIS i thought i had so many life-long friends but now when i'm bak i can see the reality.. the reality that not all of them had thought the same thing so i can honestly say nw that that number of ppl has dwindled down to possibly just 1 or 2. i dunno sometimes.
All these problems arise because freinship, like a relationship is mutualistic. You cant be friends with someone who doesnt want to be freinds with you. It just doesnt work tht way... the same principle applies in the sense that you cant be life long friends with a person if that person doesnt want to be life long friends with you. Its just a matter of choice isnt it.
Everything in our life is a choice. Joel said before that happiness was a choice, that if we want to be happy we can be. For most parts, i agree with that but my view is slightly twisted in the sense that i don't think happiness is a choice but rather Not being Sad is a choice. Sounds the same rite? But lets take this scenario, an orphan has nothin, no friends, clothes, food, family, love , nothing. I don't really think he has a choice to be happy because theres really nothing for him to be happy about. But despite this, he DOES have the choice of nt being sad, by dismissing all his worries. In that way, he becomes neither happy or sad but rather in a neutal state
Yes i know, nothing is EVER that simple and this scenario is totally idealistic. But everything sort of falls between that lines. Cuz nomatter how we cut everything at different angles, its still cutting. So in the end, everything is made simple because of all the complications that exists.
Does that make sense?
JIS is twisted in that way cuz it just makes people think of all the things their nt suppose to. Thats how life is isnt it.
hmmm i've been thinking bout the question i asked... and i sort see why some people would choose over their friends. Because some people probably wun end up being there for them when its all over anywayz, cuz they themselves would probably choose their own spouses. So having a partner, its just more of a guarantee that they'll be there when things are over. I guess so rite? i mean noone wants to end up alone and life's all about numbers and chances.
I remember when i first left JIS i thought i had so many life-long friends but now when i'm bak i can see the reality.. the reality that not all of them had thought the same thing so i can honestly say nw that that number of ppl has dwindled down to possibly just 1 or 2. i dunno sometimes.
All these problems arise because freinship, like a relationship is mutualistic. You cant be friends with someone who doesnt want to be freinds with you. It just doesnt work tht way... the same principle applies in the sense that you cant be life long friends with a person if that person doesnt want to be life long friends with you. Its just a matter of choice isnt it.
Everything in our life is a choice. Joel said before that happiness was a choice, that if we want to be happy we can be. For most parts, i agree with that but my view is slightly twisted in the sense that i don't think happiness is a choice but rather Not being Sad is a choice. Sounds the same rite? But lets take this scenario, an orphan has nothin, no friends, clothes, food, family, love , nothing. I don't really think he has a choice to be happy because theres really nothing for him to be happy about. But despite this, he DOES have the choice of nt being sad, by dismissing all his worries. In that way, he becomes neither happy or sad but rather in a neutal state
Yes i know, nothing is EVER that simple and this scenario is totally idealistic. But everything sort of falls between that lines. Cuz nomatter how we cut everything at different angles, its still cutting. So in the end, everything is made simple because of all the complications that exists.
Does that make sense?
JIS is twisted in that way cuz it just makes people think of all the things their nt suppose to. Thats how life is isnt it.
Labels: Philosophical Rantings
|Exclamation_popcorn reflected on life at 6:08 PM