Sensitive is a Sensitive Word

Among the world's cliche includes the fact that everyone thinks girls are more sensitive than guys. MYth, myth, complete myth, cuz when it comes to certain things, your gonna strike a guy's sensitivity like a peircing arrow through those graphic hearts. Basically, IMO, 3 things always strikes a guy's sensitivity the most out of everything else

1.Girlfriends, Spouses and significant others
oh haba, i wud never tell a guy, even my best best super best best that his girlfriend looks like the creature from the black lagoon. That is just an uncool thing to do and totally unecessary, obviously he sees some beauty in his gf that you dont but tell him the unecessary and expect to get a big punch/slap/groin kick cuz its gonna hurt his feelings... (as well as the girl's most liekly)
And possibly, he's gonna start looking more detaily into all those couple photos he took before. =P

2. Clothes
No, no, no,no noooo please don't tell a guy his outfit looks bad, makes him look fat, looks stupid..... please please cuz its gonna damage a guy's self-clothing esteem. Very often, a guy is told a shirt makes him look wider and poof, he looks at the mirror for 10 minutes than decides not to wear it ever again... even if its his fav shirt. Even i do this sometimes because sometimes its jsut ncie to wear nice clothes that makes you stand out from the crowd.

3. Physical Appearance
Basically, your gonna be poking a guys sensitivity when you mention the words: 'fat', 'irregular', 'tyre', 'tummy',, 'short', ' 'ball-shaped' etc.
Maybe its just me but some guys are really shallow wanting geat hair, physique, 6-pac ... you know the stuff....

Turth is at times overrated, cuz a white lie goes a lnog way in a friendship. And for me, when it comes to these three things, my true friends are the ones who lie abt it (or not necessarily lie, but sort of not mention it, or just nod in silence ;) )... even if i seriously looked bad. =)
So girls, next time a guy wears pocket protectors, has a sharon osbourne girlfriend and looks like the spare trye storage of a Michellin workshop... have a heart.... tell him he looks fine because sometimes, guys just need to be lied to .

Labels: Philosophical Rantings

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Exclamation_popcorn reflected on life at 11:22 PM